Halfway through the work day. I thought I’d have blogged more by now J.
I had my island at lunch, got me perked right up (yay flat whites).
I will have to call my brother and see how he’s doing with the possible child being born very near to now (before or after). I truly hope all goes well and everyone ends up being healthy and strong and that this provides a great life opportunity to see what he can handle being that a child is not an easy thing to do though am sure he’ll do just fine. He has to right?
Yesterday, I debated telling the wife about it as I knew she’d go off on a tear about who ‘should’ and should not be able to have a kid, and before you get irritated (just yet lol) it’s not even ‘just about my brother’ but basically anyone that is NOT HER with her savings and her choices in life should not be having one and should not be allowed to. Yeah, full of herself much? Well I bit the bullet and thought I will NOT not mention it. I called my parents Sunday night and heard about it was really soon. I was then told under no certain terms that I was to answer a call from him or use my phone on ‘our’ day yesterday. I think I may have mentioned this (though may not have with this guy’s Swiss cheese brain) but I went ‘fine’ and I put my phone upstairs away from anything. I made her do everything on her phone that she asked ME to do. Why I can’t! My phone’s not with me! OR My phone’s upstairs! Anyway, glad he didn’t call anyway which means they probably haven’t had the kid yet.
I will be calling though at some point to see how things are. I, unlike the wife, isn’t a judgmental prick of a person and I don’t’ care who you are wife or otherwise, NO ONE will make me not care for my family, my brother or my relatives. They are MY relatives. She’s telling her coworkers (of whom she hates them all) that she doesn’t ever want to see the kid, that they are not welcome to visit and so on because of them being ‘so dumb’ as to have a kid blah blah blah…So I think I know my riot act moment. Just have to see when I get to read it to her. That being said, she’s back to her old game with my parents. Why can’t they decide a weekend? If they come and expect we have days off, I don’t, I’d have to use a holiday day to take it off to see them and well they aren’t MY parents. I’d LOVE to see her reaction if I were to do that with HER parents. I kind of did once but only after just being irritated how she looks upon MY family as opposed to hers.
I think I’ll narrow down a weekend, near the middle of September, and they can come up, visit, I can drive them around the city while she’s at work with her bestest friends (and brownies) and will have a helluva time while she’s an angry sack of crap. I’m also debating some talk with my parents about things between her and I too, for instance about her deciding she can’t come to visit them at Christmas either as she will not take any holiday days to see them as they aren’t’ HER parents…that and doesn’t get a week and a half off like IIIIIIIIIIIII do…
Sigh. This is why I need my islands lol…I swear…It is odd though to see the camping her, compared to the ‘usual’ her. Even Japan her wasn’t that great as camping her. Soon as she comes back home it’s jumping on board the selfish train of hers where nothing matters except her, not the ones she (supposedly) loves or cares about (as long as they do everything).
Funny. After all this ranting of hers about how basically everyone I like is shit, she wanted to get cuddly and snuggly and nothing happened. I was not in any mood. She was irritated at that (big surprise). She just thinks it’s just all the truth so why should I be angry or irritated or not in the mood after she spouts off her fat mouth.
Idjit. Oh and this coming weekend? I get to do another picnic! Frak me…
Oh by the way, I’m doing okay, this was for entering data more than anything else. I needed to get it down on ‘paper’. BTW I wonder what HER parents would say if they knew that she will NOT visit my parents, her in-laws for anything in the world. Not if it takes any time or effort on her part.